It's been an eventful week for us. New son #2 has been home from the hospital for a week now, and we've been getting adjusted to have another little one around. Sleep has been hit or miss. Little guy has been doing pretty good all around though.
I thought it might be helpful to pass along some notes to those who are getting ready to go through the whole adventure on their own. I'm not going to talk about the medical side of it -- that should come from mom's doctor and nurses, not a blog on the interwebs, but rather a few takeaways from our experience.
First up: have your bags packed well before the due date. Son #1 was two days late, this baby was 11 days early. My wife & sons "baby bugout bags" were packed beforehand, but only a few days. We were a bit lucky, there.
Son #1's "baby bugout bag" had some snacks, toys and change of clothes, which helped keep him happy while playing at friend's houses.
Wife's bag had mostly clothes for her and the baby, some snack and toiletries -- the hospital will provide most of the medical supplies needed.
I just brought my standard everyday carry bag (need to update ya'll, but it's the same basic bag I've had for a while), plus the camera, extra batteries, a sleeping bag, and a small blow up pillow. I had to spend a couple minutes rounding these things up.
You have a couple of hours, typically, to get to the hospital. The wife will be of varying degrees of "with it" during that time - depending on contractions and what not. You can do some running around/grabbing stuff if needed, but I'd have a checklist handy if that was the plan.
Have backup plans. We had triple backup plans for people to watch Son #1 while we were at the hospital, and those were well squared away, too. We'd e-mailed everyone and coordinated several week prior. Definitely try to have more than one option, though - two of our three were out of town a few days later.
Have the "new baby" stuff ready to go. This was kid #2 for us, so we had most of what we needed and only bought one or two new things. But a couple things were buried in storage bins/boxes from the move--namely, the car seat in one box and the infant inserts for the car seat in another box. Inserts were forgotten on the way to the hospital, so I had to run back home after delivery and dig through a couple closets before finding 'em. Dropped the ball there, too.
Notes on stuff that I brought:
- Food. They're not liberal with food in the ol' delivery wing, especially for dad. Had an energy bar somewhere around 2 am and a Mountain House Granola for breakfast.
- Sleeping bag. A Snugpak Jungle Bag, which is quite nice, packs down ridiculously small, folds out into a blanket and is not too warm for sleeping in a room. I'll do a full write up on it in the near future. The hospital had some crappy blankets, but this was helpful for getting some rest.
- Blow up pillow. A Cocoon Air Core. Really comfortable. My wife actually stole it and used it throughout most of the stay. Unfortunately, the valve has a slight leak to it, so the pillow needed to be reinflated every hour or two. Lame. We had a problem with stitching on another one. Good design, QC problems.
- Phone and charger was a must have.
I usually have a few energy drinks around the house, or some energy drink mixes in my bag, and I've had No-Doze type pills in the past, but I dropped the ball this time. Good thing to have on hand if you might be facing an overnighter, long distance drive, etc.
Overall, figure out what you're going to need and have it ready to go about a month before the due date, maybe sooner. Write out a check list for when the baby evac comes.
That's about it off the top of my head. We had a pretty low-key experience - delivery and recovery went smoothly, we live about 4 minutes from the hospital, and are fortunate to have some good friends around to help out. And, we'd been-there-done-that and largely knew what to expect.
Glad to answer any questions in the comments section, and I know there's more than a few regular readers who have been through childbirth a time or two, who can provide plenty more insight and advice.